My toy boy lover is abusive and blames me for his porn habit

My toy boy lover is abusive and blames me for his porn habit

DEAR DEIDRE: MY toy boy lover is abusive and even blames me for his porn habit. I know I’m not the problem but sometimes I feel like I’m going mad. It’s making me feel really depressed.  I’m 49 and he’s 38. We’ve been together for three years. He has a lovely side. He can be … Read more

Never mind sex, I can’t even get a hug from my husband

Never mind sex, I can’t even get a hug from my husband

DEAR DEIDRE: NEVER mind sex, I can’t even get a hug from my husband.   I’ve tried everything to get the spark back, but he isn’t interested. I feel like all I am to him is a cook and cleaner. We’ve been married for seven years. I’m 42 and he’s 47. Our sex life was fine … Read more

I fear for my son after meeting internet girlfriend halfway across the UK

I fear for my son after meeting internet girlfriend halfway across the UK

DEAR DEIDRE: MY son really wants to meet his internet girlfriend but I’m scared to let him out of my sight. He’s 16 and studying for his GCSEs. He’s hoping to go to college next year to study sports. I never used to worry about him but last year he had his new iPhone snatched … Read more

I feel sick after finding out about my wife’s fling with her mother’s boyfriend

I feel sick after finding out about my wife's fling with her mother's boyfriend

I feel sick after finding out about my wife’s fling with her mother’s boyfriend …C0NTINUE READING HERE>>> DEAR DEIDRE: SINCE I found out that my wife was once in a relationship with the man who is now her mother’s boyfriend, I’ve felt sick. I’m finding it impossible to be intimate, and when I try, all … Read more

I got home with the Christmas shopping just as my husband walked out the door

I got home with the Christmas shopping just as my husband walked out the door

DEAR DEIDRE: THE Christmas lights are up and the festive decorations out, but this time of year makes me feel so blue after my husband dropped a bombshell three days before Christmas last year. I’d just arrived home with all the food shopping to find him waiting in the kitchen with his bags packed.  To … Read more

I’ve started admiring other men’s bodies at the pool and it makes me wonder if I’m gay

I've started admiring other men's bodies at the pool and it makes me wonder if I'm gay

I’ve started admiring other men’s bodies at the pool and it makes me wonder if I’m gay …C0NTINUE READING HERE >>> DEAR DEIDRE: OVER the past few years, I’ve started finding other men very attractive despite the fact I have only ever had relationships with women. Could I be gay or bisexual, and not have … Read more

My gym trainer is getting suggestive with me and even gave me a sex toy

My gym trainer is getting suggestive with me and even gave me a sex toy

My gym trainer is getting suggestive with me and even gave me a sex toy …C0NTINUE READING HERE >>> DEAR DEIDRE: THE new personal trainer I have is getting full-on and suggestive with me, and I’m not sure if I like it. I do find him attractive, and we’ve kissed, but he’s married and I’m … Read more

My wife had an affair but is manipulating the situation to make it seem like it’s my fault

My wife had an affair but is manipulating the situation to make it seem like it's my fault

My wife had an affair but is manipulating the situation to make it seem like it’s my fault …C0NTINUE READING HERE >>> DEAR DEIDRE: MY wife had an affair and somehow it seems it is my fault. She’s a master at gaslighting and manipulation. We’re both approaching 40 and have been married for ten years. … Read more

My friend says my boyfriend is sleeping with an old woman from his canteen at work

My friend says my boyfriend is sleeping with an old woman from his canteen at work

My friend says my boyfriend is sleeping with an old woman from his canteen at work …C0NTINUE READING HERE >>> DEAR DEIDRE: A PAL told me that my boyfriend has been sleeping with an old woman from his canteen at work. It’s gross! I’m a female of 31 and my partner is 32. We have … Read more

I don’t know whether to stick with safe husband or amazing sex-addict lover

I don't know whether to stick with safe husband or amazing sex-addict lover

I don’t know whether to stick with safe husband or amazing sex-addict lover …C0NTINUE READING HERE >>> DEAR DEIDRE: I HAVE met the most incredible man. He is the best lover, is considerate, adventurous and has an exciting life. I am ready to throw in my steady but boring married life for him, but there … Read more